Billie Eilish Tightens Her Commanding Grip on Pop Music on HIT ME HARD AND SOFT
Working again with the instrumental talents of her brother Finneas, Eilish’s third album yanks her out of her former teen stardom and gives her the space to reckon with the complexities of her own confusing and liberating adulthood.

Billie Eilish’s awaited third LP, HIT ME HARD AND SOFT, is exactly the kind of album that pop music needed right now—if only because it’s not a bloated misfire. It doesn’t hurt that Eilish’s latest is also pretty good. Even when the 22-year-old isn’t putting out records, she’s still winning awards and outpacing her peers without missing a step. Her 2019 debut, When We Fall Asleep, Where Do We Go?, put her into an icon status that not even her 2017 EP Don’t Smile at Me could have foreshadowed—nabbing her five Grammy Awards out of six nominations, including Album of the Year and Record of the Year (“Bad Guy”). Cut to her sophomore release, Happier Than Ever, and she left the Grammys with zero wins out of seven nominations. Happier Than Ever wasn’t a measure of any kind of sophomore slump, but rather a comedown from an unparalleled genesis. Few artists have ever put out a debut as commercially and critically decorated; Billie Eilish became a phenomenon in 2019 and her star-power hasn’t let up for one moment. And with her multi-hyphenated, generationally talented brother (and Glee alum) Finneas O’Connell helming the producing, engineering and arranging of all of her work, you can expect nothing but above-average work from the duo in perpetuity.
But Happier Than Ever felt like a true example of a pop artist not knowing what direction to turn next after conquering their own league. Eilish’s somber era was confessional, stirring, tortured and delicate—but the music didn’t pack the heft of its predecessor, though songs like “Getting Older,” “NDA” and “Male Fantasy” were (and are) quite good. To understand the power of Billie Eilish, however, requires you to make peace with her being the kind of musician with such a level of no-nonsense talent that she can still rain on your favorite artist’s parade even when she doesn’t have a new album to campaign for. She won Record of the Year for standalone single “Everything I Wanted” in 2021 (the same year she won Best Original Song at the Oscars for “No Time to Die”) and then crushed the hopes of Taylor Swift, Dua Lipa, Miley Cyrus, SZA, Jon Batiste and Olivia Rodrigo by winning Song of the Year for “What Was I Made For?” In other words, it is becoming obvious that every year might very well be Billie Eilish’s year. We better get used to it. She’s won nine Grammys (and two Golden Globes, two Oscars) in five years; her new album, HIT ME HARD AND SOFT, will add to that tally come next February.
Eilish’s 2023 song “What Was I Made For?,” which she composed for Greta Gerwig’s Barbie movie, became such a titanic ballad that it has almost become larger than the life of the film itself—despite only peaking at #14 on the Hot 100. If you’re like me, then it was the introduction of Eilish’s track in Barbie that broke the emotional seal and brought out the waterworks. But, more than anything else, it felt like a song that was going to greatly shape Eilish’s career moving forward. HIT ME HARD AND SOFT corroborates that theory completely. “Twenty-one took a lifetime,” she sings in the first verse of the album. “People say I look happy just because I got skinny, but the old me is still me and maybe the real me, and I think she’s pretty.” It’s a commanding entry point, done up as a slow-burn guitar ballad that cascades into a last-second orchestral monsoon—featuring strings from Andrew Yee, Nathan Schram, Amy Schroeder and Domenic Salerni. Eilish’s vocals are as hushed as they’ve always been, until they’re not. At the song’s halfway point, she steps back from the microphone and lets her natural acapella flourish—saddling runs that would work perfectly on a ‘90s R&B cut.
What “SKINNY” does is make the mission of HIT ME HARD AND SOFT obvious: Eilish’s vulnerability is about to be an unbreakable main character, a product that makes sense in the context of her being the without-a-doubt pop GOAT of Gen-Z music. In a 5-star review, The Daily Telegraph mustered up the notion that HIT ME HARD AND SOFT is “rich, strange, smart, sad and wise enough” to enter conversations with Joni Mitchell’s Blue. I don’t know about all of that, but what can be said about Eilish’s third album is that it will likely set her far apart from her contemporaries as a lyricist. “LUNCH” gets right to the point and confirms as much: “I could eat that girl for lunch,” Eilish sings. “Yeah, she dances on my tongue, tastes like she might be the one and I could never get enough.” We’ve come a long way from the days of Eilish being admonished for queerbaiting in her “Lost Cause” video. After ruminating on her sexuality without any filter in a recent Rolling Stone cover story, she’s arrived on the scene of HIT ME HARD AND SOFT with an absolute club ripper about eating box. “It’s a craving, not a crush.” In Eilish’s world, being queer doesn’t have to be sweet or gentle territory. Sometimes a track as forthright and up in your business about the pleasures of girl-on-girl bedding is necessary. There’s no either/or in Eilish’s music; such urges, melancholy and desires can be both triumphant and liberating and difficult.
And that difficulty follows Eilish throughout the album and especially on “CHIHIRO”—as she puts her love for Hayao Miyazaki’s Spirited Away on display. As Miyazaki’s masterpiece follows the titular Chihiro on her journey towards better understanding the strange and unknowable joys of life (all while trying to get her and her parents back to the human world after entering kami), Eilish uses parallels to the coming-of-age narrative of the film to better serve her own reckonings with abandonment, love and how they are both interwoven within each other. “When I come back around, will I know what to say?” she wonders. “Said you won’t forget my name, not today, not tomorrow. Kinda strange, feelin’ sorrow.” Finneas’ arrangement flutters between the kind of muted drum programming that catalyzed When We Fall Asleep, Where Do We Go? and a looping, pulsing synthesizer that balloons so much it drowns out Eilish’s singing. On much of HIT ME HARD AND SOFT, Finneas toys with outros in captivating ways—using them as sequiturs or codas that better serve the overall momentum of the album’s sonic arc altogether, rather than appear like jarring afterthoughts.