Master of None: “Ladies and Gentlemen” (1.07)

I want to love “Ladies and Gentlemen.” I really do. The episode puts Aziz Ansari’s Madison Square Garden material on gender-based harassment to good use. It is the only episode in the first season that features women in the writing credits (Sarah Peters and Zoe Jarman wrote the teleplay), and one of two episodes with a female director (Lynn Shelton)—that’s not necessarily a knock against an auteur project like Master of None, mind you, but it’s nice as a viewer to get a brief vacation from the more closely authored episodes. And so far, some of this show’s best work has come when it tackles social issues like immigration, racism and tokenism. An episode about the differences in men’s and women’s life experiences? Master of None should be up to that task.
But maybe this episode should have two grades: one for the subset of men who do not understand the pervasiveness of sexism, and one for people who are already on board with its message.
I already know what it’s like to be followed by a creep. I already know that “nice guys” are often not so nice. I already know that I have to set my Instagram to private to avoid stalking. And I already know about all the little, often subconscious slights that many men don’t even notice. In that sense, “Ladies and Gentlemen” doesn’t feel like it’s for me. It’s more a work of sympathy than one of empathy. But that is, I suppose, part of the episode’s point, which it builds to after Dev defends his Garden Depot commercial director to Rachel after he doesn’t acknowledge her at a table, but shakes Arnold’s hand: There are things about being a woman that you don’t and can’t understand unless you are one.