Catching Up With Arie Posin
Photo by Emmanuel NabetThe Face of Love, the latest film by American director Arie Posin (and his first since 2005’s Chumscrubber), feels as familiar as it does personal; although the picture borrows from classics ranging from Solaris to, perhaps most notably, Vertigo, its greatest influencing factor actually happens to be reality itself. Proving that truth really is stranger than fiction, The Face of Love finds its basis in a yarn told to Posin by his mother, so any similarities between it and the works of the greats are purely coincidental. Almost.
When we spoke with Posin, it was clear that he doesn’t really mind the comparisons; after all, it’s difficult to be anything but flattered when your film receives mention alongside the likes of Tarkovsky and Hitchcock. We talked not only about what fascinates him in a storytelling capacity, but also about the depth of romantic human relationships and loss—two central ideas behind The Face of Love—and the importance of crafting an organic narrative.
Paste: I wanted to start at the beginning and just get an idea of how the project came together. What motivated you to make the movie in the first place?
Arie Posin: Sure. Well, it’s based on an incident that happened to my mom. Many years after my dad passed away, she told me one day—and actually in language really similar to what Nikki, Annette Bening’s character, uses in the movie—she said to me, “Something happened to me today. I walked past the LACMA (the Los Angeles County Museum of Arts), and I was at the crosswalk on Western Boulevard, and I saw a man coming toward me who looked like a carbon copy of your father.” And I said, “Well, what did you do?” She said, “You know, I stopped, standing in the middle of the street, and he walked toward me with a big smile on his face, and it just felt so nice. I knew it wasn’t your dad, but it felt so nice in that moment to imagine that that was really him, that he was still around. He moved past me, and then the light changed, a car honked, and I kept going.”
When she told me that story, I found it really moving and very hard to shake. I started having dreams about it, and eventually I tried writing about it, and that eventually led to the movie.
Paste: It’s interesting, it’s such a small, almost one-of-a-kind incidental event, and here you draw so much more out of it. For your mom, it sounds like it just happened and life moved on, but for Nikki, it becomes an obsession that she feeds more and more into. She becomes, maybe “crazed” isn’t the right word, but there’s definitely a level of unraveling that occurs.
Posin: For sure. Eventually, it becomes a compulsion that she can’t shake. You know, when my mom told me that it happened, she told me it took her a week to get over it. It really shook her to the core. And I know for me, I think I was the one who really became obsessed with it. I just found it so moving, and I think everyone who has experienced love and loss can identify with the wish of having another moment or two with that person. And I don’t just mean “loss” in terms of death—you know, first love or relationships that don’t work out, you think, “What if I saw that person?” It reawakens all of those feelings.
Coincidentally, when I heard the story, I’d really gotten into brain research. It was a hobby, I was reading all these books about the brain, and I got talking to a brain scientist who explained to me that when we see somebody that we love over a long period of time, it triggers a very specific chemical reaction in our brain that identifies that, and that in turns leads to an emotional reaction. So when you see someone who reminds you of that person, who looks like them, in your brain, it triggers a precise chemical reaction. On a chemical level, it’s not as if you’re seeing that person, you are seeing them again, and on a molecular level, the feeling is exactly the same.
So that’s what kind of kept my curiosity during the process of scribbling notes about it, and then when I worked with my co-writer, Matthew McDuffie.
Paste: That’s really fascinating—it actually adds more depth to the moments where Nikki calls Tom “Garrett.” It’s not that she’s mistaking him for someone else; she genuinely believes that he’s this other person, and why wouldn’t she? He looks like Garrett, he sounds like Garrett…
Posin: Exactly. That’s exactly right. On a chemical level, on the level of emotion, she is really talking to Garrett, and that’s what leads to her unraveling, as you said. It’s exactly that, because at the same time, there’s an intellectual awareness that kicks in that they’re not the same person, and in fact, she’s really attracted to this man. Certain people have a type, and she’s dating someone who looks like Garrett, but why do we do that? It’s an interesting question.