10 Other Shades of Grey: Sadomasochism in Film

While little more than glorified, de-fanged piece of Twilight fan-fiction, 50 Shades of Grey has initiated a very public discussion on sadomasochism that has arguably never been so loud, so divisive and so mainstream. Whereas teenage girls from the past relied on the likes of D.H. Lawrence for kicks, and suburban moms leaned on Fabio-tastic romance novels for titillation, a new generation of (mostly) women are getting riled up by the handsome, domineering Christian Grey and his bag of sadomasochistic tricks. With 50 Shades of Grey finally in theaters, here’s a look at a rich history of films that similarly dealt with the ideas, pleasures and pitfalls of sadomasochism.
Here are 10 sadomasochism movies better than 50 Shades of Grey:
10. The Whip and the Body (1963)
Mario Bava is no stranger to fetishistic imagery, a large bulk of his filmography rich with textures, gyrating bodies and mysterious velvety passageways. Sex and horror are deeply intertwined, and beautiful heroines often found themselves the object of sexual and violent lusts. Though The Whip and the Body is not Bava’s greatest work, it is his most sexually charged. The sadistic son of a nobleman (Christopher Lee) is exiled from his home after his former lover, a servant girl, commits suicide. He makes a return at the bequest of his brother and immediately transfers his mad sadistic lust to his brother’s wife. Even after Kurt is found murdered shortly thereafter, the strange erotically charged visits to the wife don’t stop… The titular whip becomes the central image of the film, and rather than just being a symbol of fear, it becomes an organ of violent lust. The apparent victim is also not so unwilling—in the role of Nevenka, Daliah Lavi reacts with orgasmic fury to her lashings. Causing quite a stir at the time of its release, the co-dependent nature of this violent relationships was not lost on audiences or critics.
9. Secretary (2002)
With a Sundance release in 2002, Secretary quickly became notable for its somewhat unconventional take on the romantic comedy. With a wispy Maggie Gyllenhaal in the lead role, her transformation from self-abusing masochist to active participant in a sadomasochistic love affair is entrancing. Enough fantasy to dispel any criticism of the apparent lack of safe words, the film does appropriately transition from having Mr. Grey (a role tailor made for James Spader, that similarly makes you wonder if the only two works of fiction the author of 50 Shades of Grey had been exposed to was this and Twilight) hold the power in the relationship to having Lee take control later in the film. This point hits the nail on the head in understanding that it is the submissive that ultimately holds the most power in sadomasochistic relations. While suffering from some vagueness and perhaps naivety in terms of what a healthy sadomasochistic relationship really looks like, Secretary nonetheless is perhaps the most important mainstream informer into sadomaso relations before 50 Shades of Grey entered the popular consciousness.
8. Salò: 120 Days of Sodom (1975)
Pasolini removes the concept of pleasure from sadomasochism in Salò: 120 Days of Sodom, instead utilizing the Marquis de Sade’s text of the same name to explore the nature of sadism as it connects to abuses in power. It seems almost necessary to include it, as it is perhaps the most infamous adaptation of De Sade’s work every committed to screen. Pasolini’s vision of sadism utilizes the imbalance of power to create a film that is the antithesis of pleasurable. Perhaps the most damning film against unyielding political power ever made, Salò portrays a fascist elite who find gratification in the humiliation, objectification and abuse of their young and poor captives. Using fetishism and sadism as a metaphor for greater and escalating abuses of power, the film remains one of the most difficult explorations of hatred, greed and privilege to be put to screen. Forty years after its initial release, the film’s parade of humiliations, including force-feeding shit, remain barely watchable—it is a confrontational work that asks the audience to be challenged with the uncomfortable truths of the horrors that humanity is capable of.
7. The Duke of Burgundy (2014)
A bizarre and entrancing experiment in sadomasochistic desire, The Duke of Burgundy is a dark comedy about a pair of lepidopterists who spend their days engaged in sadomasochistic games. At first glance, we are witness to a one-sided situation of sadistic abuse. Evoking the style of Italian genre films of the 1960s and 1970s, the environment is rich with textures, sounds and sensations—the women are perfectly coiffed and dressed. From the beginning, we are presented with a situation of high fantasy, a realm of the imagined and decorative female. The idea, though, of passive and decorative femininity is continually subverted and stripped away. While many scenes push the boundaries of so-called good taste, the film is centrally about a romantic relationship and the trials and tribulations of how sex fits into that equation. Strangely heartfelt and consistently funny, the film has already received numerous accolades since it premiered at TIFF in 2014 and has only further raised Peter Strickland’s stock as one of the most exciting working filmmakers today.
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