Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

The late Maya Angelou once said, “I don’t trust people who don’t love themselves and tell me, ‘I love you.’ … There is an African saying which is: Be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt.”
One wonders what the sharp-tongued protagonist of Chimamanda Ngozi Adiche’s third novel would have to say about it. Proverbs have their place in the story, as characters in Nigeria test their Igbo against one another, but so does a criticism of the ways in which American blacks can reduce the culture of the ‘motherland’ in ways that Africans barely recognize.
As for the question of self-love: Does Ifemelu, the main character, possess it? The book anchors in many ways to relationships with the men she loves and leaves. But Ifemelu appears to know herself fully. She insists on speaking English the way she learned it back home, rather than adopting an American accent. She finds strength in the choice to wear her hair naturally.
The majority of the novel, spanning years spent by Ifemelu and her love Obinze in Nigeria and abroad, is framed by Ifemelu’s trip to a hair-braiding salon on the eve of her departure from America (as if to comment on the length of time one spends getting hair braided). The narrative includes posts from the heroine’s blog, always detailing some peculiarity of American culture from the perspective of a self-designated “non-American black.”