Where Amy Sherman-Palladino Leads, We Will Follow: Gilmore Girls at 25

Where Amy Sherman-Palladino Leads, We Will Follow: Gilmore Girls at 25

Picture this: it’s October 5, 2000. You turn on your television, cozy up on the couch, and tune into The WB Network for your latest fix of all things teen drama. A new show with an alliterative title might catch your eye… and within minutes, you are transfixed by two fast-talking, sidewalk-strutting, coffee-guzzling, tall, dark-haired women with startlingly blue eyes. And hence, with There She Goes by the La’s filling your living room and the introduction of the Gilmore Girls, your life is never the same.

For those somehow unfamiliar, Gilmore Girls follows 32-year-old Lorelai Gilmore (Lauren Graham), a teen mom who left home and moved to a small town in Connecticut to raise her quietly precocious daughter, Rory (Alexis Bledel). The show begins right before Rory’s sixteenth birthday, when Lorelai is forced to ask her estranged parents (the formidable Kelly Bishop and Richard Hermann) for financial help to send Rory to a prestigious private school.

October 5, 2025, marks the twenty-fifth anniversary of the premiere of Gilmore Girls’ first episode. At last month’s 77th Primetime Emmy Awards show, Graham and Bledel reunited onstage to present the award for Outstanding Writing for a Comedy Series. Backlit by the soft lighting emanating from a set recreation of Lorelai’s farmhouse-style white wraparound porch, the pair acknowledged the anniversary with their characters’ quintessential quips.

The internet went wild seeing the titular Gilmore Girls together again, even in an unofficial capacity. The power of the Palladinos’ universe prevails, grown even stronger in the years since the series’ first go-round, thanks to social media. By no means a sleeper hit during its original run¾each episode garnered an average live viewership of five million¾Gilmore Girls still only won one Emmy across an impressive catalogue of 153 episodes… for makeup, of all things. This feels downright insulting and borderline sacrilegious, especially for a show that was known for regularly featuring scenes so chock-full of rapid, dynamic dialogue that the scripts were often double the normal length.

I first watched Gilmore Girls over ten years ago, deep in the trenches of early middle school angst, per the recommendation of my English teacher. He was a man who looked a lot like Edgar Allen Poe and did not fit the bill of the “typical” Gilmore Girls fan, offering proof that this show truly is for everyone. The following week happened to be Thanksgiving break (which is, dare I say, the perfect time to be introduced to Stars Hollow, CT). Thus, every spare moment I could find that was not taken up by family obligations or outdoor activities was spent on the air mattress in the living room, lying prone on my stomach, soaking up every last drop.

I have rewatched it almost every single year since. It somehow does not get old. There are definitely specific storylines I tend to skip (cough a certain affair cough), but like a fine wine, most of it only gets better as you age. With each year I acquire new knowledge and sink further into the pop culture zeitgeist, the more of the subtly sharp references that pop out of the Gilmore girls’ mouths at one hundred miles a minute I’m able to laugh at, because now I understand them.

The staying power of this series is ridiculous. It’s eponymously a “girl” show, so the obvious audience may seem to be young women, but it truly appeals to all. It was especially unique for its time and remains so now because of its focus on both an adult and a teen in equal measure. This helps give the series its timeless feel, because you can really watch it and/or revisit it at any stage in your life. My mom watched it for the first time two years ago, after years of my begging. She fell in love with it just as much as I have, because she was able to relate to Lorelai’s struggles, where I have always connected more with Rory.

While Gilmore Girls often got a lot of attention for its relationships, the friendships at its center were often just as romantic. People in Stars Hollow lift each other up; they network, they bicker, they know each other intimately in a way that modern-day dating apps and social media seem to erode incrementally with each new update. Everyone craves social connection, regardless of your status as an introvert, an extrovert, or otherwise. Yet I think this is especially true for those of us who were barely toddlers when Gilmore Girls was on air, who did not get the privilege of growing up in a “slower” world.

This rhetoric is repeated ad nauseam, but it’s the truth: these days, we have constant access to everyone and everything. The world is rapidly evolving and devolving, and so there is the ultimate escapism in the tiny bubble that is Stars Hollow. It’s a bit isolated, which, for better or worse, forces community among its few thousand citizens in a way that is not afforded to us in bigger cities or on the vast webs of the internet. This is not only idyllic for Gen Z (and the subsequent Gen Alpha, who are just discovering it for the first time), but it’s also a painful nostalgia point for millennials and Gen Xers who did get to grow up in these long-past times.

The past several years have been wrought with anxiety, and that feeling of uncertainty in every arena¾politically, economically, and otherwise¾conjures a deep sense of yearning for a simpler life. For comfort in any way we can find it. That’s not to say the political or economic landscape was perfect for the Gilmores; 9/11 occurred during the second season’s run, and the last season aired in 2007, abutting the Great Recession of 2008. The show itself is also not without its faults, especially when viewed through a modern lens, although I won’t harp on that too much. (And many of the problematic elements of Gilmore have already been discussed at length elsewhere.)

For its sweet sixteenth anniversary, Amy and Dan Palladino returned to Stars Hollow for a four-episode revival, Gilmore Girls: A Year in the Life. It’s difficult to touch on this without major spoilers for both the original series and the revival itself, but know that it was not received incredibly well due to certain… character choices. The revival is often seen as the black sheep of the franchise, alongside its controversial seventh season (which the Palladinos famously did not write, having exited the show at the end of Season 6 after a contract dispute).

Luckily, there are other avenues through which to celebrate your love of Gilmore Girls. Autumn may present the perfect atmosphere for a rewatch, but I prefer to bask in the warm glow of Stars Hollow all year round through as many mediums as possible. And luckily, there are a lot to choose from. My personal favorite is Gilmore To Say: A Gilmore Girls Podcast, a part-analytical, part-lighthearted podcast hosted by Tara Llewellyn and Haley McIntosh.

Episodes are released every Tuesday (and this Fall, we’re blessed with even more frequent uploads, as sort of an “autumnal bonanza” for the 25th anniversary). This podcast is as cozy as its namesake; Llewellyn and McIntosh feel like your two best friends or older sisters ringing you up for a casual, yet thoughtful, chat about your favorite show. And for bookworms, like Rory, McIntosh hosts a subsection released every so often called Gilmore to Read, where she interviews well-known authors who’ve written books that have the same vibes as the show, or have been inspired by the show in some way.

Scott Patterson, who played Luke Danes, the grumpy Stars Hollow diner owner and on-again, off-again beau of Lorelai, also has a podcast. I Am All In with Scott Patterson is released in shorter bursts but more frequently; he dissects old episodes and brings on special guests who are tied to the show (as writers, actors, musical guests, etc.). And to hammer home that Gilmore Girls isn’t just for anyone of a particular gender identity, there’s the Gilmore Guys podcast, hosted by Kevin T. Porter and Demi Adejuyigbe, to bring a male perspective to it all.

If you’re not a fan of podcasts, you’re not lost in the fray. Kelly Bishop (matriarch Emily Gilmore) just released a memoir this year called The Third Gilmore Girl, and Lauren Graham (Lorelai herself!) has two memoirs to dive into: Have I Told You This Already? and Talking As Fast As I Can.

All this to say: Gilmore Girls lives on through myriad mediums, whether indirectly or through revivals that end on painful cliffhangers. It’s only hitting its stride in its twenty-fifth year and arguably has yet to experience a true quarter-life crisis. I think I speak for all Gilmore Girls fans alike when I beg Amy and Dan Palladino directly: please give us that Christmas special. Or one more, feature-length addition to A Year in the Life. We will never ask anything of you ever again.


Gillian Bennett is a writer and editor who has been featured in Strike Magazine, Her Campus, and now Paste Magazine. She enjoys watching copious reruns of Buffy the Vampire Slayer and fantasizing about living in London. You can find more of her neverending inner monologue and online diary on her Twitter or her blog.

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