Paige and the Redemption and Erasure of Wrestling Trainwrecks

Content warning for mentions of suicide and domestic violence.

Earlier this month, news broke that Alberto El Patron (formerly Alberto Del Rio in World Wrestling Entertainment) was involved in an altercation with Paige at the Orlando airport. No charges of domestic violence were laid against El Patron, but TMZ has since reported that police recommended that Paige should be the one charged with a crime. As per WWE’s wellness policy, a third violation (which they rightly consider intimate partner abuse as) would result in the termination of Paige’s contract with the company.

This is the latest development in Paige’s downward spiral, which arguably began when her and El Patron got together in early-to-mid 2016 and was solidified upon her two wellness policy violations in August and October of that year. She has not been seen on WWE programming in over twelve months and will not return for season seven of Total Divas, the previous season of which she was barely featured on; when she was, she was portrayed as unhinged and possibly inebriated. All reality shows need a villain, and Paige became the quintessential trainwreck of Total Divas, when she was seen on the show at all.

Feminist writer Sady Doyle, in her book Trainwreck, contends that “women disappear because they’ve been wrecked—because we’ve hated them for long enough to get bored of them. But they also disappear due to being misunderstood, or condescended to, or ignored. They vanish into irrelevance, but they also disappear into poverty, or addiction, or domesticity, or day jobs. The natural tendency is to see these disappearing girls as titillating unsolved mysteries. But they weren’t spirited away to never-never land; they were talented professionals whose careers were put on hold for decades, or for the rest of their lives.”

While the wider culture may be simultaneously fascinated by and contribute to the phenomenon of the female trainwreck, in a male-dominated industry such as wrestling, the majority of their trainwrecks are men. I challenge you to name on less than two hands the wrestlers who, in the past few decades, have died, killed someone, become addicted to drugs and alcohol and have physically hurt their professed loved ones. I’ll start.