Yes, Fleishman Is in Trouble. But Which One?
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The game of Fleishman Is in Trouble is one of focus.
Taffy Brodesser-Akner’s 2019 best-selling novel, and the Hulu series she adapted from it, are eyes-on-the-prize stories. It’s an optometrist’s exam that makes you keep your mind focused on this one singular dot while there’s a battery of distractions in your peripheral vision. It’s a murder mystery where the narrator did it all along told through the lens of middle-aged malaise.
The plot has one central character: Toby Fleishman, as portrayed in the series by Jesse Eisenberg in what is essentially an eight-episode rendition of that Saturday Night Live monologue he once gave that mocked his perceived social awkwardness and ticks. Toby is a 40-something hepatologist in New York City who is going through a divorce. While he leans into the newfound world of dating apps and mutually agreed-upon one-night hookups, we’re also treated to his increasing hatred for his (ex) wife, an uber-successful, bootstrapping talent agent named Rachel (Claire Danes): why they fought, when they fought, and how they probably weren’t that good for each other to begin with. In Toby’s eyes, Rachel is angry, bossy, and emasculating as she conquers the New York theater scene and earns an income that allows them to give their two kids a ritzy private school education, summers at sleepaway camps, and a house in the Hamptons that they drive to in a luxury sedan.
And Toby hates all of it.
All of this is narrated by Libby (Lizzy Caplan), a stand-in for Brodesser-Akner (herself a former GQ reporter known for her detailed profiles of celebrities). Libby also spent years working at a men’s magazine where she was praised for her writing but wasn’t allowed to do any “real” stories. Libby, Toby, and their friend Seth (Adam Brody. Yes. I know. He’s playing another Jew named Seth) met during a college trip to Israel and were once an inseparable threesome. Then life got in the way and Libby found herself to be a stay-at-home-mom who lives a comfortable existence of pool parties and picnics in the New Jersey suburbs with her saintly husband Adam (Josh Radnor) and their children.
And she hates all of it.
Using a storytelling device common for magazine profile writing, Libby narrates a summer of Toby’s ups and downs and therefore makes him the hero and causes us to viciously hate Danes’ Rachel. Toby has to take care of the kids. Toby is the one who sacrifices job advancement for the sake of the family. Toby is the one who gets a dog to ease his kids’ pain of their other parent’s abandonment.
This is to say that the book, and the TV series, swap the gender dynamics that the media has drilled into us (at least when it comes to traditional marriages). Men can have midlife crises and ditch their wives or families for recent college graduates and flashy sports cars. Men can work all the time and climb the corporate ladder while women, either out of their own guilt or lack of opportunities, sacrifice career hierarchy for time with the children.
So which Fleishman is in trouble? Or is it all four of them?
It isn’t until the end of the season when we find out why Rachel left, why she worked so hard and (especially during a horrifying traumatic birth scene that makes the audience wonder how the couple ever had a second kid) why she seemed to keep her kids at a distance. And Libby is so invested in reporting the tale of her friend’s divorce to an audience of strangers that it also isn’t until later in the series that we get a full conversation on why she’s having an “is this all there is?” moment of her own. She doesn’t recognize the old Libby—the woman who wore makeup, smoked, and had a prestigious job—in the body of the woman who always sports the same dirty ponytail and who wears yoga pants and yells at her kids in the middle of an amusement park.
Women want to recapture the hope and freedom and irresponsibility of their youth too, ya know. The difference is that they have a cultural obligation to bottle up their rage and keep saying yes.