Cougar Town: “Waiting for Tonight”

The big problem Cougar Town has been continually trying to overcome since moving to TBS concerns not having much more for its characters to do or say. Narrative is about conflict, and like many sitcoms Cougar Town thrives on having its characters more or less on very agreeable terms with each other. Conflict is, in fact, barely part of its DNA, as it’s always been largely a show about people getting older, drinking, and figuring out what to do with the second half of their lives. You give those storylines too much drama, and things become depressing—and Cougar Town is more about running gags and goofy pantomimes than it is about serious discussions of death and mortality.
So the show’s conflicts tend to be minor, but last season, for instance, they were small to the point of insignificance. In “Waiting for Tonight,” though, Cougar Town did a much better job of drawing out the drama of life’s little irritations. These are always the things the show has excelled at, and in this episode two of the main problems just involve couples looking for more time together. For Jules and Grayson, it’s the search for a night, or even a few minutes, of alone time without friends or family, while for Laurie and Travis it’s for enough time alone to have their first sex since Laurie gave birth.
The stronger of these two stories was Jules and Grayson’s, which goes through a whole rigmarole of sneaking around to avoid friends and family in order to have a secretive night out at a fancy tapas restaurant. Eventually “they” hit one of their neighbors in the cul-de-sac, ruining their plans, and keeping them in. More sit-com shenanigans ensue and they end up alone at Grayson’s bar, with a happy ending. But what made all of this so affecting was the openness. They solved this problem for an evening, but the characters know it’s not going away soon. The ephemerality of this moment away from everyone was what made it sweet, a nice conclusion to the strange journey over there. There’s an acknowledgment of a problem here without trying to offer an easy solution, which made for a weirdly mature end to a Cougar Town episode.