How I Met Your Mother: “The Ashtray” (Episode 8.17)
Photo courtesy of Richard Cartwright, CBS
Part of the major allure of How I Met Your Mother is how the show unfolds. By now you know that it’s Future Ted recounting how he met his children’s mother over one long evening in the future. The show employs flashbacks within flashbacks within flashbacks, and sometimes it’s confusing, but it works and really is a fresh perspective on storytelling. Then there are episodes like this week’s where the present-day characters recount things from different perspectives and all hell breaks loose.
“The Ashtray” reintroduces The Captain (played by the hilarious Kyle MacLachlan) who calls out of the blue and forces Ted to remember his last awkward encounter with the man. Back in 2011, after Ted had just broken up with Zoey—The Captain’s recent ex-wife—and was on the rebound with a girl in a boat advertisement, he ran into The Captain at an art gallery that he was at with Robin and Lily. He found The Captain to be extremely rude, but he handled it cooly, even when he was assaulted by the man with a harpoon gun.
Ted cannot for the life of him understand why The Captain is calling him, and Barney cannot believe he wasn’t there during this crazy story and keeps injecting himself into it. The retelling of this incident was a hilarious opening and set-up for a great episode, and I thought the writers were going to leave it at that. But they didn’t. They take it a step further, and we learn that Ted’s account of the story isn’t quite right.
Robin informs Ted and the rest of the gang that Ted had just “eaten a sandwich” and wasn’t in the right state of mind when he met The Captain. Robin replays the events from the art gallery with a different twist. The Captain wasn’t being rude to Ted, but was overly nice and blatantly hitting on Robin.