The King of Staten Island Is Indulgent, Unfocused and Full of Life

It’s hard to pull off a cohesive tone with dramedies about mental illness. The comedy part demands a quippy protagonist who masks their inner pain with killer comebacks. The drama part comes with the obligatory scenes of emotional purge, the defensive walls tumbling down and our protagonist exposing their fragile state. The tonal shift can be sudden enough to give you whiplash.
Pete Davidson co-wrote and stars in The King of Staten Island, a messy but honest exploration of a millennial stoner’s journey to finding purpose in life despite living with grief and depression. Davidson is sometimes uncomfortably open about his own struggles with mental health in his stand-up act; his no-fucks-given vibe, combined with co-writer/director Judd Apatow’s brand of R-rated wholesomeness, culminates in a series of beautifully raw moments.
Consider a scene where Scott (Davidson) begrudgingly goes to a minor league baseball game with his mother Margie’s (Marisa Tomei) new boyfriend, Ray (Bill Burr). Ray’s a firefighter, which is a big deal breaker for Scott: His dad was one, at least before he died on the job when Scott was only seven (the same thing happened to Davidson, whose father died on 9/11). Unable to process his grief, Scott unloads on Ray and his firefighter friends about how cruel it is for them to raise families, knowing they can die and leave a mess like Scott behind. The moment isn’t played for pathos, or for awkward laughs, and such vulnerability can be both hilarious and a natural way to express Scott’s anger at the world without hamfisted exposition.
Earlier, Scott tells his little sister Claire (Maude Apatow, who’s become quite a nuanced actor), worried about Scott’s mental state as she prepares to head for college: “I’ll probably harm myself. If there’s anyone who will harm himself, it’s probably me.” Rather than abjectly melancholic, to Scott, that aside is on-brand silliness. Even when Apatow expectedly meanders through an overindulgent and needlessly sprawling narrative, Davidson’s dedication to creating a sincere, semi-autobiographical character free of genre considerations always draws the focus back to him.