Broken Mirrors: The Melancholic Beauty of Two Lovers

In vain, your image comes to meet me
And does not enter me where I am who only shows it
Turning towards me, you can find
On the wall of my gaze, only your dreamt-of shadow
I am that wretch comparable with mirrors
That can reflect but cannot see
Like them my eye is empty and like them inhabited
By your absence, which makes them blind
This poem from Louis Aragon speaks of the ways we see others through merely our own lens. When gazing upon another, it’s not through some window in which we can observe their essence without filter, living their days unencumbered by our presence. Rather, we see everyone through mirrors, only able to conjure an image of them as reflected through our own visage. Thus each person we encounter and our interpretation of them is ultimately a series of projections: What about them reflects the things that we love, hate, desire and ignore about ourselves. Whether we like it or not, each relationship we have is filtered through myriad expectations that we subconsciously place on the other person due to our own baggage.
Ostensibly inspired by Fyodor Dostoevsky’s short story White Nights, James Gray’s 2009 picture Two Lovers has an emotional current that is coursed through with this sentiment from Aragon’s poem. In those 66 words, Gray found the heart that would become this story of lonely divorcee Leonard Kraditor (Joaquin Phoenix) and his dilemma, torn between two women.
Living in an apartment with his parents (Isabella Rossellini and Moni Moshonov) after the disintegration of his marriage and several suicide attempts, Leonard finds himself drawn to Michelle (Gwyneth Paltrow), the alluring, mysterious new tenant across the way. He meets Michelle during a spat with her boyfriend (who we later learn is a married man played by Elias Koteas) and Leonard shelters her from the dispute, connecting with her in his quaint home with his peculiar personality that reflects a damaged yet endearing soul.
Around the same time, Leonard’s parents introduce him to his father’s new business partner, and the man’s daughter Sandra (Vinessa Shaw). It becomes clear that these parental figures are attempting to set Leonard and Sandra up, and while she presents a calming aura, a gentle empathy and a sincere interest in him, Leonard can’t shake his fixation on Michelle. He discovers that, from his bedroom window, he can see into Michelle’s apartment, using it to observe her, daydreaming about what their life together could be.
In a conversation with Sandra, we learn that Leonard adores movies, and it’s easy to see how his fantasies of Michelle could come from a person who lives with a cinematic understanding of the world. It happens to all of us who have film ingrained in our soul. From early on, we see the world through this lens of stories that could only exist in the pictures: Grandiose, packed with emotion and romantic professions and saving each other from despair. The more Leonard learns of Michelle’s difficulties, the more he gravitates towards her. Things that should be red flags (you know, like being in a relationship with a married man) are merely obstacles that they’ll overcome on their path to a fated love. Shattered by a failed marriage that was no fault of his own—Leonard and his ex-wife both contain the rare gene for Tay-Sachs disease, meaning that their future children likely wouldn’t live beyond age 12—this is a man who has so much love to give, and life has told him over and again that he’s not allowed to give it. Why wouldn’t he push against that for the woman in the window?
When I spoke with James Gray recently for Letterboxd Journal on the occasion of the Criterion Channel’s collection James Gray’s New York, the director told me that he used a number of European features as influences. Chief among them was Krzysztof Kieślowski’s A Short Film About Love, which similarly centers on a young man enamored by and obsessed with a woman he spies on through their apartment windows. “The key for Two Lovers was a somber and sober picture with as much humor as we could bring to it, but still about a very certain sadness and a purity in that sadness—not depressing, that’s a different thing, but sadness because sadness is beautiful,” Gray explains.
After making his trade in previous features steeped in the grit and grime of New York crime, Two Lovers was a major pivot for the director, and one he felt attacked a gap in the landscape of cinema. “Heartbreak deserves its own moment to shine in the movies, because heartbreak is one of life’s great truths and one of life’s great inevitabilities, and it’s unpleasant, so we don’t tackle it much in cinema,” he says. Indeed, there’s a deep reservoir of ache shrouding Two Lovers, capturing the sensation that, even as you’re going through the minutiae of your day, the smallest thing could make you crack into a million pieces.