The Best Movies of the Year: Seeing Things We Shouldn’t in Decision to Leave

Severed fingers on piano ivories, three flavors of incest across as many movies, a dog with a man’s face, fully-loaded cyborgs mowing down hospital nurses and orderlies, a water-logged child ghost, a slashed Achilles tendon billowing blood with the flow of a river: Park Chan-wook has delighted audiences with these grisly sights since stepping onto the world cinema stage with Sympathy for Mr. Vengeance (2002), his fourth film and the first chapter in what has, over the years, come to be referred to as The Vengeance Trilogy—a ghastly title for gruesome images, traditionally staged in well-appointed rooms wrapped in fashionably patterned wallpaper.
In 2022, Park surrounds new grisly sights with a new roll of wallpaper in Decision to Leave, a neo-noir whodunit-cum-erotic thriller about a policeman gazing longingly at the woman he’s fallen madly in love, as she returns his gaze from the other side of the law. The man is Jang Hae-jun (Park Hae-il), a detective working sleepless nights in Busan. The woman is Seo-rae (Tang Wei), a Chinese emigrant whose husband, a retired immigration official and mountaineering enthusiast, took a fatal tumble while scaling one of his favorite peaks. At first, Hae-jun suspects Seo-rae of murder, though on admittedly flimsy grounds. But suspicion stirs infatuation; it doesn’t take a seasoned detective to note Seo-rae’s comeliness, and Hae-jun, in breathtakingly short order, starts staking out her apartment and fantasizing about joining her there.
If the synopsis cut there, Decision to Leave would still sound like a full-fledged Park film, because Hae-jun’s obsession with Seo-rae, regardless of her guilt or innocence, is indecorous enough to fuel a two-hour narrative sans further plot adjuncts. But the moment where Hae-jun starts crushing on Seo-rae is the moment where Seo-rae starts crushing back, and returns his surveillance to match. Evidence points to her husband’s death as a suicide. Hae-jun lets her go. But in a Park film, nothing’s so simple as mere physical self-destruction. From here, Decision to Leave morphs into a cat-and-mouse between Hae-jun, who tries to quit his ardor for Seo-rae to spare his sanity and save his marriage to his equally lovely wife Jung-an (Lee Jung-hyun); and Seo-rae, who refuses to let Hae-jun go and, yes, might actually be a black widow.
Decision to Leave is Park at his best, though someone out there likely made a similar quip about The Handmaiden (2016), Stoker (2013), Thirst (2009); repeat, lather, rinse. What’s unique to Decision to Leave is the effect of accidental self-reflection: The film captures, then dramatizes, the sensation of watching a Park movie. To degrees, each of his films hinge on a hapless protagonist seeing something they shouldn’t see. Park’s voyeur kink is embedded deep in his movies’ nerve centers. In his world, there are—broadly speaking—either eyes watching everywhere or innocuous peepholes casually strewn about as bait for overly curious schmucks, who can’t help but take a look and sign the order of their own subsequent doom.
In Decision to Leave, the dynamic cuts across Park’s dual protagonists. Hae-joo, a cop, has an excuse for peeking behind the curtain of Seo-rae’s life: She may be guilty of knocking off her husband, and to reconcile that tricky “may,” Hae-joo is empowered to scour her personal history—which means looking where he should and not where he shouldn’t. But Park draws a line, thin though it is, where Hae-joo’s observation of Seo-rae becomes personal instead of professional: It’s in the moment when he notes her eating habits instead of her whereabouts; when he orders her a premium sushi box for dinner while interviewing her at the police station; when he imagines sitting in her apartment as she falls asleep, cigarette in hand; when he figuratively inserts himself into her life, picturing them together as if he isn’t a cop and she isn’t a potential killer. Soon, he doesn’t even have to picture: They visit a Buddhist temple on a date, hang out at one another’s homes, and grow emotionally intimate. Hae-joo’s fantasy edges closer toward reality with every passing moment where he allows himself to forget his job.